WOMEN ARTISTS AND SCIENTISTS

Great article about women artists. (link below)

Abolishing all stereotypes.

And well, of course – still are true those things

1. Woman MUST come to the moment when she choses : career or married life

2. Often a woman who choses career stays unmarried or married and no kids

Check Ann Rand and Anais Nin

3. Of course each artist therefore male too, needs a helping soul, a friend , a wife, a muse..to create , grow, believe in himself cause artists and visionaries , scientists , are often not self assured, doubting, depressive, too fragile, with head in clouds…

Check Einsteins or JS Bach’s wife or Joha ir Jeanne of Brassens

But

Women .. At some point Want to sacrifice a part of life for kids

And/or husbands , society expects them to sacrifice…

3. Really artists with good success come from families where was some tradition and practice of this very art ..

Women succeed when they have professional, financial , emotional help and support and acceptance from parents, friends soulmates and AND HUSBANDS.

ESPECIALLY THAT . wise mature and supporting husband or a lover protector is a clue here… Nobody succeeds without support at the passage time to achievement..

Check Biographies for ex Maria Sklodowska Curie

Of course

If there are problems on the way – it means that NOT ONLY SUCCESS AND ART OR SCIENCE is the goal of that incarnation.

For ex Camille Claudel was brilliant but she also had to learn from her toxic relationship with Rodin

Same for the wife of Einstein.

She was also very skilled and intelligent but she mainly had to learn relationship, emotions and setting borders in marriage .. Becoming individualised.. and defend her rights

Well a complicated topic..

But even now we can see for ex. Joanna JAgiełło , she is my friend, a Polish writer of novels for teenagers, she s my age, so about 47 , and got success just some 3 years ago.. so very late, and with her novels for kids and teenagers and on the wave of a feminist movement.

She s very skilled in writing. She put a lot of work to become a writer, but first was a teacher, then worked for a publishing company, and her basic training is in foreign languages.

So — just as with her, and me, and many women nowadays WHO NEED TO GET SOME JOB AND BEING A WRITER IS NOT A JOB AT ALL NOW OR EVEN BEFORE ( many great writers had jobs until they had great success and money so they dropped the job to only write or do art )

some never drop those jobs… Adam Mickiewicz or Chopin or Norwid were all their life private tutors , and they had sponsors, lovers, protectors, parents helping .. of course

And while Mickiewicz was known during his life , Norwid got no fame or success of money, while we consider him as big as Mickiewicz. Now.. the more visionary , and new in ideas u are the harder to get the success, and usually ur dharma is to — learn to protect urself from people who cheat, learn to work for idea, sacrifice for society and work , die in poverty… — check Tesla vs Edison etc

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So we become teachers, proof readers, publishers and other … in order to even be allowed to create any art… that keeps as alive …

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We may say that times they are changin

NOT SO MUCH

Now publishing in amazon is easier and available but at the same time the competition is greater and it s hard to even be noticer

kinda EVERYBODY DOES ART… BUT WHO WANTS IT..

well.. still it is wanted when IT IS TRUE ART AND NOT ENTERTAINMENT

TRUE ARTIST COOPERATE WITH NICHE MOVEMENTS AND PUBLISHING COMPANIES

More possibilities? More education? Yes, but again– more competition

more platforms when u can gain success and at the same time

not be noticed over all…

kinda every where…

to call is a success

check for ex. the creator of PAtronite — a couple from California, group Pamplemousse (if i m not mistaken)

They both had great education, music at home from parents, and all possibilities

still… they have hard time showing they own art and do a lot of covers …

so …

But all in all the world is changing in that sense that the most souls in the world become on end of young and mature levels

That means a lot of focus on individualisation, and relationships, and lots of toxic stuff to deal with to grow spiritually,

so science and art is kinda… never the only focus

Let s talk again though about Joanna Jagiełło, maybe she will not be mad at me

I am a kind critic — she has a father who is a poet, and publisher,

he helped with her poems,

working for a publishing company is also a perfect way to get into the circles of writers and publishers

Then she has friends men bf who helps with recording music (she does music and songs too) , and /or art (she paints)

She has harsh life – but no comparison with me

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Me? Well… my main life focus is on relationships.

toxic vs mature

Those relationships , childhood, friends , romantic — all disturbed my creations but also the creation was my ONLY help and the way to keep my head over the sea and not become completed mad and not get addicted to anything…really

So the whole first part of my life — art has the therapeutic role,

no successes and no determination from me, no believe in myself, and no people believing in me.

And no even encouraging me to do art, writing, cause my family did not had such traditions , I was the first to even go to university

no support here

NONE

The other thing is that — writing is a broad term.

what writing? what art? what music?

I am well talented in music , but was not well trained from childhood, and had no determination for musical achievements,

music just accompanies my poems, or makes me feel better – so it s therapeutic.

So there it is , elements of me, my life creation :

*writing poems, novels and practical guides , books with knowledge

*making music, playing the instrument, creating music, singing

*learning without end and teaching — SO KNOWLEDGE , passing on the knowledge

Only those 3 things make a whole

I undestood it 3 years ago.

None of those could lead me to the success separately even though I tried hard.

There is also a fourth element — media, technology. I am meant to do all thru online media, technology, internet, do all graphics by myselfs , publish on amazon etc …

This also I undestood only with the last vedic astrology analysis

And there is the fith element — like the true fifth element – the most important —

THE HUSBAND, A GOOD RELATIONSHIP , EMOTIONAL AND FINANCIAL SUPPORT, BELIEF, LOVE

It s necessary — for achieving the end of my life road, my dharma , to have the balanced relationship after all I ve learned from toxic and after working on myself

It is necessary – cause with two kids — I can not do any real important demanding work, art work, writing work or scientific , knowledge work.

I could only work somewhere as a teacher and live with my parents

which is so pathetic that it makes me want to commit a suicide immediately.

Also.. since I have already 2 kids and I take care of them as a single mother, there is no time for a job such as a teacher job AND creating my project, art etc… I tried to do it a few years back and it finished with my complete burnout, disease and finally I sold my appart and went back to parents house to live from poor government money, survive, take care of kids and prepare my project.. but … well…only angels assure me I WILL succeed and the love WILL COME .

one day…..

And last .. but not least — Poland. here the energy is blocked. period. end of story.

I need to emigrate. I tried many times. I know there is nothing for me here. But if destiny will not fulfill itself – i ll die here in poverty and bitterness heh… like many before me

Voila

That s me

ARTICLE WHICH WAS THE BEGINING OF MY ARTICCLE