{"id":593,"date":"2017-06-06T20:49:00","date_gmt":"2017-06-06T18:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/blog\/2017\/06\/06\/niesmiale-albo-ambitne-dziecko\/"},"modified":"2019-10-21T20:05:38","modified_gmt":"2019-10-21T18:05:38","slug":"niesmiale-albo-ambitne-dziecko","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/en\/blog\/2017\/06\/06\/niesmiale-albo-ambitne-dziecko\/","title":{"rendered":"Nie\u015bmia\u0142e albo ambitne dziecko"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Nie\u015bmia\u0142e albo ambitne dziecko<\/h4>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a style=\"clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-puadkjzeDhM\/WTcHEZoFd8I\/AAAAAAAAIG4\/ud8OIsJItXcH8jny104LY-WnpYovQCLDgCLcB\/s1600\/DSC_0008.JPG\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-puadkjzeDhM\/WTcHEZoFd8I\/AAAAAAAAIG4\/ud8OIsJItXcH8jny104LY-WnpYovQCLDgCLcB\/s320\/DSC_0008.JPG\" width=\"180\" height=\"320\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\" href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gbl3-qDtIBM\/WTcG8xd-IbI\/AAAAAAAAIG0\/KMpz44Av9AYUdMqI8q80rDyA4DyA9d9DwCLcB\/s1600\/DSC_0005.JPG\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-gbl3-qDtIBM\/WTcG8xd-IbI\/AAAAAAAAIG0\/KMpz44Av9AYUdMqI8q80rDyA4DyA9d9DwCLcB\/s320\/DSC_0005.JPG\" width=\"320\" height=\"180\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><strong>Je\u015bli dziecko przechodzi okres nie\u015bmia\u0142o\u015bci,<\/strong> albo nie czuje si\u0119 pewnie w jakiej\u015b umiej\u0119tno\u015bci &#8211; ja jestem za tym, by nie popycha\u0107 go ku niej, tylko znale\u017a\u0107 kompromis.<br \/>\n<strong>M\u00f3j syn uwielbia hulajnog\u0119<\/strong> i chce je\u017adzi\u0107 coraz lepiej. Lubi te\u017c je\u017adzi\u0107 na skateparku. Hmm, cz\u0119sto jednak to miejsce jest pe\u0142ne m\u0142odszych i ca\u0142kiem du\u017cych dzieci.Syn obawia si\u0119 \u017ce kto\u015b na niego wpadnie, albo oceni jego umiej\u0119tno\u015bci.<\/p>\n<p><strong>MA tak\u0105 cech\u0119 &#8211; ambicj\u0119 i perfekcjonizm &#8211;<\/strong> i ja to akceptuj\u0119 &#8211; \u017ce chce by\u0107 \u015bwietny w czym\u015b, i dopiero wtedy pozwala sobie miesza\u0107 si\u0119 z innymi. Czasem dzieje si\u0119 tak te\u017c, gdy \u017caden z koleg\u00f3w nie mo\u017ce pojecha\u0107 z nami na skatepark. Towarzystwo przyjaci\u00f3\u0142 sprawia, \u017ce syn czuje si\u0119 pewniej i nie przejmuje si\u0119 tak na ile dobrze udaje mu si\u0119 w danym dniu je\u017adzi\u0107.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Oczywi\u015bcie &#8211; mo\u017cna by si\u0119 zacz\u0105\u0107 martwi\u0107,<\/strong> ale daleka jestem od tego. Trzeba dzieci akceptowa\u0107. Staram si\u0119 to robi\u0107. Ka\u017cdy jest indywidualno\u015bci\u0105 z w\u0142asnymi potrzebami. Wol\u0119 zastosowa\u0107 RB i NVC i dogada\u0107 si\u0119 z dzieckiem.<br \/>\nPo prostu przychodzimy na skatepark rano. O 9.00 nikogo nie ma &#8211; jedne dzieci w szkole, inne jak nastolatki &#8211; \u015bpi\u0105 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nie\u015bmia\u0142e albo ambitne dziecko Je\u015bli dziecko przechodzi okres nie\u015bmia\u0142o\u015bci, albo nie czuje si\u0119 pewnie w jakiej\u015b umiej\u0119tno\u015bci &#8211; ja jestem [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2940,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,3],"tags":[32,23,268,272,270,113,271,52,26,35,43,269],"class_list":["post-593","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-edukacja-domowa","category-potencjal-i-pasja","tag-edukacja-alternatywna","tag-edukacja-domowa","tag-hulajnoga","tag-jak-pomoc","tag-niesmiale-dziecko","tag-okiem-matki-slowianki","tag-perfekcjonistyczne-dziecko","tag-podroze-z-dziecmi","tag-potencjal-i-pasja","tag-problemy-dzieci-w-szkole","tag-wychowanie-dzieci","tag-zajecia-dla-dzieci"],"spectra_custom_meta":{"blogger_blog":["edukacjadomowojezykowa.blogspot.com"],"blogger_author":["joanna choluj"],"blogger_permalink":["\/2017\/06\/niesmiae-albo-ambitne-dziecko.html"],"blogger_internal":["\/feeds\/6686688482947019057\/posts\/default\/7021774014026751516"],"_edit_lock":["1571681010:2"],"_edit_last":["2"],"_thumbnail_id":["2940"],"_uag_page_assets":["a:9:{s:3:\"css\";s:0:\"\";s:2:\"js\";s:0:\"\";s:18:\"current_block_list\";a:0:{}s:8:\"uag_flag\";b:0;s:11:\"uag_version\";s:10:\"1777943544\";s:6:\"gfonts\";a:0:{}s:10:\"gfonts_url\";s:0:\"\";s:12:\"gfonts_files\";a:0:{}s:14:\"uag_faq_layout\";b:0;}"]},"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",490,871,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-169x300.jpg",169,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",490,871,false],"large":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",490,871,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",490,871,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",490,871,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008.jpg",7,12,false],"illdy-blog-list":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-490x500.jpg",490,500,true],"illdy-widget-recent-posts":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-70x70.jpg",70,70,true],"illdy-blog-post-related-articles":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-240x206.jpg",240,206,true],"illdy-front-page-latest-news":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-250x213.jpg",250,213,true],"illdy-front-page-testimonials":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-127x127.jpg",127,127,true],"illdy-front-page-projects":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-476x476.jpg",476,476,true],"illdy-front-page-person":["https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/DSC_0008-125x125.jpg",125,125,true]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"joanna choluj","author_link":"https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/en\/blog\/author\/joanna-choluj\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Nie\u015bmia\u0142e albo ambitne dziecko Je\u015bli dziecko przechodzi okres nie\u015bmia\u0142o\u015bci, albo nie czuje si\u0119 pewnie w jakiej\u015b umiej\u0119tno\u015bci &#8211; 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