{"id":3903,"date":"2019-11-23T23:48:19","date_gmt":"2019-11-23T22:48:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/?p=3903"},"modified":"2019-11-23T23:48:19","modified_gmt":"2019-11-23T22:48:19","slug":"dzieci-takie-kochane","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/en\/blog\/2019\/11\/23\/dzieci-takie-kochane\/","title":{"rendered":"Dzieci. Takie kochane?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Dzieci.<\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3904\" src=\"http:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/73192604_10159065301250299_4245937517011927040_o-300x223.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"223\" srcset=\"https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/73192604_10159065301250299_4245937517011927040_o-300x223.jpg 300w, https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/73192604_10159065301250299_4245937517011927040_o-768x571.jpg 768w, https:\/\/joannacholuj.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/73192604_10159065301250299_4245937517011927040_o.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nTakie mi\u0142e cudowne kochane. Rodzicielstwo blisko\u015bci. Przychylanie im nieba. I ca\u0142okszta\u0142t.<br \/>\nTo dzieci wybieraj\u0105 rodzic\u00f3w, zauwa\u017cmy.<br \/>\nI czasem przychodzi m\u015bciciel, pe\u0142en z\u0142o\u015bci gniewu i ociekaj\u0105cej krwi\u0105 karmy.<br \/>\nI ko\u0144czy 9, 10, na\u015bcie lat i zaczyna by\u0107 nie-r\u00f3\u017cowo. Temat tabu. Woda w usta. S\u0142ysza\u0142am to tylko na grupach\/spotkaniach\/ terapii zaburze\u0144 osobowo\u015bci, depresji, uzale\u017cnie\u0144.<br \/>\nNapisa\u0142<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">am dwie ksi\u0105\u017cki. O toksycznych zwi\u0105zkach i o wychowaniu do wolno\u015bci. Nie wydalam i teraz pytanie czy jest sens. My\u015bla\u0142am, \u017ce sporo wiem. \u017be zamkni\u0119ty etap. \u017be to dwie oddzielne sfery.<br \/>\nNie. Mo\u017cna wyj\u015b\u0107 ze zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w toksycznych i napotka\u0107 kolejne, w czasie wychowania dzieci.<br \/>\nCzy &#8222;metody s\u0105 te same?&#8221; tak samo &#8222;proste&#8221;<br \/>\nNie wiem.<br \/>\nChyba w og\u00f3le nie istnieje co\u015b takiego jak metoda i rozwi\u0105zanie w tej kwestii.<br \/>\nPrawdopodobnie trzeba i\u015b\u0107 w ten ciemny las razem, brn\u0105\u0107 w tej ciemnej nocy po omacku. P\u00f3j\u015b\u0107 na wypraw\u0119 razem ale jednocze\u015bnie by\u0107 mo\u017ce te\u017c oddzielnie.<br \/>\nI by\u0107 mo\u017ce potem mo\u017cna si\u0119 odnale\u017a\u0107. M\u0105drzejszym. Mo\u017ce b\u0119dzie happy end. Mo\u017ce nawet mo\u017cna napisa\u0107 o tym now\u0105 ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119.<br \/>\nTak\u0105 jak &#8222;Kwiat paproci&#8221;, &#8222;O dw\u00f3ch takich co ukradli ksi\u0119\u017cyc&#8221;, &#8222;Ba\u015b\u0144 s\u0142owia\u0144ska o nied\u017awiadku&#8221;.<br \/>\nJednak nie zawsze jest happy end, i czasem jest na co\u015b za p\u00f3\u017ano.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dzieci. Takie mi\u0142e cudowne kochane. Rodzicielstwo blisko\u015bci. Przychylanie im nieba. I ca\u0142okszta\u0142t. To dzieci wybieraj\u0105 rodzic\u00f3w, zauwa\u017cmy. 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